Anonymous asked: If your bras cause you so much discomfort maybe you should wear one that fits correctly
Why didn’t I think of that? Gee you have just solved all the problems of bras! You should get in contact with the person who took those photos and let them know that it’s no big deal, and if we have better fitting bras it’ll all be peachy okay?
Firstly, they do ‘fit’ me. Half of the time i need a size between, just like shoes and clothes. So sometimes it’s a compromise to start off with. They also lose elasticity very fast, so that changes how they fit, genius. And would you like me to wear a thickly strapped bra with a spaghetti strapped top or a strapless dress? Because I’m sure someone like you would figure out that that would be unflattering. But strapless bras fall down and hurt more than normal ones you see. Just like bodies are all different shapes, so are breasts. Did you not get taught that in sex ed? Its not one size fits all. And sometimes it’s not untill I get home that I realise the underwire moves about and digs into me. So thank you for your wisdom, but if it was that easy then the bras I’ve been fitted for on multiple occasions would be perfect, painless and still do their job. Hint: they weren’t and/or didn’t.
Either you’re a very lucky and also slightly ignorant (in regard to this) girl, or you’re a guy. I’m placing my bets on the former.
One day I will not be in love with the boy who’s in love with someone else.
Me: "When do the stepping stones become painless though? Right now I'm choosing between one that's on fire and one that has thumb tacks glued to it upside down. Either way it's going to suck."